Personal development, or how to create?

Once you get a taste for it and see how much you have to learn, you don't want to stop developing your personality. He wants to know more and more about the driving forces, the world of thought, to understand the context of personality development more deeply. He also recognises that when he wants to know the whys behind what is happening in the present - be it health, financial or relationship problems - it is worth digging deeper.

What is the path to personal development? It is almost impossible to explain, because every individual has a different path to follow - just as no two apples are the same, and even twins are not the same, they can only be similar.

I myself would like to better understand people, their actions, to read between the unspoken lines... That's why I often select and vary different methods, theories and practical knowledge: coaching toolkit, positive psychology, naturopathy, schüssler therapy, kinesiology, systems adjustment, non-violent communication - I add some intuition and experience. 

But let's look at this through a concrete example. I have a dream, I have a goal: I want to plant a tropical flower and I want it to grow well, to bloom beautifully.

You planted it, watered it and even gave it vitamins to help it grow. The hardest part is when you can't see the first sprouts, the shoots.
We are impatient, scared and worried if we have done everything right, because we know we are dealing with a delicate little plant. It won't tolerate other roots crawling around. These are the ones who are trying to pull you back, your detractors who want to impose their own negative beliefs on you.

The days go by, you look at it and it sprouts! How gratifying, you've worked so hard for it. You keep caring for it, nurturing it regularly. It's you. You don't stop learning, you read, you go out to build relationships that move you forward. You train your body, your soul, you care for it inside and out. Just like the plant. And see how grateful the plant is: as it continues to grow, new shoots sprout. These new shoots may come to you in the form of a new skill or competence acquired.

One day you notice something interesting, like a new small plant initiative. Well these will be the children of the plant, and you will have followers, disciples, partners, resources, money, etc...

You're so pleased that you've exceeded your initial goal - a special flower - that you're even more energised and you're taking care of them all. You have created new ones. Momentum is your inner motivating factor, your inspiration.

You've already seen what you can achieve by taking care on a regular, ongoing basis. It's just like when you do affirmations, meditation, or even prayer, because you're mantraising your thoughts.

Some people are happy with this bunch of flowers, and that's fine.

Van who would like to have more plants, out of curiosity or just because they have tasted this folymath and felt good about it.
Both are good, because regular care feeds development - that's what's important, the rest doesn't matter.

But he asks the other weeds and plants what they think about planting something else in the garden. You wouldn't?

He knows that he is not doing anything harmful to anyone or anything and that he is only doing good, because he is planting a useful plant that will create new babies. It can be a good example to other flowers and plants.

Have you noticed that in flower gardens, usually either everything blooms or nothing blooms? Not always at the same time, of course.

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