Facing ourselves

by | Önismeret

I used to be scared... But I'm really glad I took a (two or three) big breaths and went for it. It would have been better earlier, but the point is that I started.

 

Tomorrow starts today

  

In many cases, we feel that we have already we did our best to make our lives better. Development trainings, coaching sessions, development books, etc... Yet if we want to be honest with ourselves, we need to be fully we have not yet found peace of mind.

Peace of mind?

Do we even remember when we really had fun? I'll help you, as they did me.
If you have peace of mind, then the problems around you don't even seem like problems, you know for sure they will be solved. Or a feeling that when you see or hear something emotionally destructive, you shut it out, you distance yourself from it. You don't let it affect you!
It's all a sense of peace of mind, or harmony with ourselves.
It would be nice to always feel that way, but somehow it doesn't come as naturally as it should, as it could.

Instead, do you often feel like your mind is racing, full of ideas that won't let you rest, and you can't even sleep the way you want to? Or even if you do sleep, do you feel tired and enervated?

Everyone is entitled to freedom (even by law). The religious and philosophical sages always took time for themselves. Sometimes they called it a retreat, sometimes they indicated that they needed to 'meet' with the Lord.

It is everyone's right and responsibility to take time for themselves, because only then can they see reality.
I often see that people don't want to get involved because they are afraid, it's scary to face reality because it can be painful.

 

Does reality hurt?

Or rather, how much does reality hurt? For example, when you realise that you were only superficially loved, but in reality the words you grew up on were not encouraged. But it could also be when you wanted help from someone close to you, you have not received enough attention, so you felt let down. You may even now find yourself in situations where you are not getting enough support.

But I have GOOD NEWS!

The pain caused by past traumas is not as great as if we stay in them.

In fact, an added benefit is that we not only get to know ourselves better, but we also gain knowledge that makes us more purposeful and makes those around us more willing to spend time with us. Who wouldn't want to be around a smiling, happy person? This is what I have learned and experienced at Lux Humana's trainings.

I believe that helping professionals in particular need high qualifications:

  • teacher,
  • advisory,
  • hr,
  • coach,
  • psychologist.

I'm not talking about the degree, I'm talking about emotional maturity, intelligence, empathic development.

Key experts on people prioritythat the particular problematic understand the underlying dynamics of the "client" situation.

A certified specialist not only heals visible wounds, but also invisible or barely visible scars and injuries.

But I can hear it back: it's a big job for everyone!

Yes, but for those who want the long term, not momentary pleasures and fleeting successes, the you have to take the time and energy to develop your own life.

 

Let's evolve then, but where?

 

A Lux Humana consultations, workshops I have participated on several occasions. I know that I can help people who come to me if I train myself. Enough of the bullshit!
For months I have been wanting to expand my Career Coaching programme because there is a demand for it. I feel I need to help more to fulfill my mission. That's why I signed up for the Heart, Soul workshop. My introduction above was to give you a taste of the beliefs and work of Lux Humana Education Center and my mentor Éva Kovács.

 

What is it about Lux Humana's education system that got you?

 

Its simplicity, its lack of mumbo-jumbo, its clear, scientifically backed ideas, and yet its practical transfer of knowledge. It feels like wow. Today my whole family has tasted the positive power of this ethos. My children have become healthier, mentally calmer, more purposeful. I have also been reassured that the career orientation of my daughters, the subjects of the Tini scheme, is on the right track. If only my parents, our generation, could have had this kind of open, opportunity-filled world! How much easier our lives would have been if our parents had been able to fine-tune themselves. After all, nothing is easier than being ourselves, so that we have a clear sense of what we need to do on a day-to-day basis.

Now I'll tell you about the training...

One of my goals when I applied was to give my new business a boost, energy and a clean shape. We were given an assignment before the course, which was very useful as we were already focused on ourselves. Even though we are not the same as Evie, our teaching method is very similar, I start with assignments myself even during the consultation. I always wondered a few years ago when I applied for a training course who the participants would be, a sense of excitement came over me. 

I now know that there will be people there who have a similar case to mine. Because our World is so wonderful that everything is so well ordered that if we are on the right track, in the right direction, we are supported by fate, the Universe or whatever you want to call it, whatever...

The theoretical part of the workshop was a confirmation for me that we are gaining valuable knowledge free of falsehoods. The practical part left us pleasantly tired, and on the second day I felt a particular strength, perhaps due to the dog, who also joined the workshop from time to time. It's amazing how much help a dog can be when you listen to it, sometimes it can sense what needs to be done better than we can. Yes, because he works from his gut, we are looking for logic in everything...

To my surprise, things in my life came up that I hadn't even remembered, that I hadn't even thought could be a problem. I might add that I was coming out of a virus, when I went I had been suffering from earache and ear congestion for 1.5 weeks. By comparison, I was feeling pretty good on the second day, I think I owe my recovery to that. 

I found peace of mind, tranquility, I'm healthy again and my problems don't seem to be a real cause for concern because I know that everything will come in time, I'm on the right track and I've almost got everything I need at the moment.

After a few months, my tension and relationships have improved within my family and in business. Many times I don't even understand and I'm just amazed at how calm I feel. My worries about my financial security have disappeared, I am able to take life more lightly because I feel safe. When I feel most in need of something, help and support comes almost out of the blue, both emotional and material.

And finally, how does this relate to my mission?

I can give my best when I am at my best when I am recharged myself. And I I want to help. I can help people who have enough are brave enough to discover the treasure within themselves and want to be happier, more content.

We turn hopeless situations into hope for a better world. We draw energy from failure and failure instead of helplessness and self-pity.


You must be the one who doesn't want to drink drops from a slowly trickling spring, but enough to quench your thirst. You are also capable of breaking the stones and pebbles that obstruct the flow of water...

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