Connect to your own resources [clarity]

Drinking wine, preaching water vs. clairvoyance

Connect to your own resources, your renewable energy source. According to Wikipedia, a renewable energy source is a group of energy sources that can be renewed in the human time scale, i.e. that do not run out, as opposed to non-renewable energy sources. You are also an energy carrier according to the scientific approach. By the end of my article, it will be clear to you what I mean by my previous statement.

In the current situation, many people ride the various "divisions of reason", i.e. they give advice. But by what right, on the basis of what knowledge and experience?

The conclusion of nearly 26 years of experience and knowledge is that no two councils can be the same, as no two people are the sameno one has ever experienced what you have, no one has ever been in your shoes. Your mind, your heart, your soul is not the same, it can only be similar to others.

What someone can do to help you is to accompany or support you all the way. Shows compassion, empathy and the ability to relate to you. However, your heart is yours, in control, the decision is in your hands. A real helper can at most hold your hand, stand by your side in times of need, but cannot carry the load for you, only lighten the load.

What is needed to bridge the gap?

I am writing all this to you because Reality, Truth, is for me an essential element. I have gone through countless changes, but the most powerful was when, during my 6 years in the Middle East during a civil war period in my life, I was thrown into a great CHANGE. Almost everyone's life was permeated with the daily threat of whether or not you would survive, as there were about 86 terrorist attacks and bombings in one year. In a country where the majority of the economy was based on tourism, offices and companies were closing down. Theft, fraud and manipulation have multiplied. The country was split into two: a hopeful, strong core and a despondent, anxious core. Love and hate. Envy and selfless helpfulness pervaded the country. It was very much like the situation we are in now.

What can be the lesson?

The biggest learning for me was to work under a leader who was open to crisis ideas, who reorganised the profile of the company, who taught me how to keep the spirit in the employees and motivate them.

Looking back, I am proud of myself for having been able to be flexible, to change my point of view and to find the source of creativity within myself.

I learned that the in a crisis, people need even more attention, love, understanding and compassion. 

Only by remaining calm, by relying on and focusing on one's own essence, one's own resources, can one find one's way out. What one needs most, in my view, is to shut out the outside world, to filter information more accurately, to filter what one allows in and what one does not allow out.

I cannot stress enough that filtering information is of paramount importance, as one word can throw you off your target and drag you back into the depths. It can feel like you're caught in a spiral, a vortex, and you can't get out, just struggling not to drown. It's a vulnerable time, you can become gullible because you want to be rescued. Someone come and tell me what to do, how to do it, but SOS!

What are the traps?

I predict that there is something positive in every negative. Ergo, you may have to experience first hand that something didn't help or you are trapped, because you will be strengthened by it.

I had to live through such situations myself, and it was good for me to see the intention behind them clearly today. But if I had not been there, how would I have known? If a child doesn't fall, how does he learn that it is possible to get up from a fall and heal from injuries?

Facilitators of the present situation: selfish or altruistic goals?!

Going back to the beginning, let's see what you encounter from time to time:

1. Unfortunately, the situation is difficult, there will be a crisis, so I will help you for free, you just need to give me your e-mail address.

I "translate" the underlying meaning of the words and thoughts: in such situations, the bait is to anticipate that there will be a crisis, to pull you even more emotionally into it with the words "unfortunately" and "difficult", "I'll help". I try to consciously avoid these, and please forgive me if I don't always succeed.

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2.Fill in our questionnaire on the crisis situation and we will help you in view of the current crisis.

I "translate" the underlying meaning of words and ideas: they themselves don't know exactly what your problem is, people's problems, and that's how they get the information so they can plan, so you're helping someone who doesn't have a fully formed plan, a strategy. 

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3.We're holding a free online conference, register for free and learn from the best. Help others and share so they can benefit.

I "translate" the underlying meaning of the words, the thoughts: we are the best, you poor thing are not there yet, see our generosity and we will descend to you. "Surely you still have some of your comrades, it's good to invite them". Here they are using the marketing, emotion-based manipulation that the more like-minded people there are, the more they can control you. We have learned about this in psychology, how to harness the power of community; and we have also learned about it in physics - see: in classical mechanics - the law of general mass attraction - which can often be exploited with negative ulterior motives.

In summary, what you can learn from this is to focus on yourself, eliminate all possible external sources (social networking sites, media, complaining acquaintances, family members). Because what you really need is more help, attention and compassion from everyone, don't spare yourself the time, energy, investment to find a TRUSTED helper who will support you in launching your power source, in rebuilding your power source, because the power is in you, no matter what anyone suggests.

The FREE knowledge transfer is valuable if it is altruistic and you are not tied down - you are not asked for any data or information in return...

I wish you a good day,
Titanilla

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