{"id":7096,"date":"2022-07-06T16:40:27","date_gmt":"2022-07-06T16:40:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/titanillaeideh.com\/?p=7096"},"modified":"2022-08-01T08:23:48","modified_gmt":"2022-08-01T08:23:48","slug":"to-control-or-rather-to-have-a-positive-effect-on-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/titanillaeideh.com\/en\/kontrollalni-vagy-inkabb-pozitiv-hatassal-lenni-masokra\/","title":{"rendered":"To control or to have a positive impact on others?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||0px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row module_class=&#8221; et_pb_row_fullwidth&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; width_tablet=&#8221;85%&#8221; width_phone=&#8221;100%&#8221; width_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; 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Pedag\u00f3giai szempontb\u00f3l az iskola, pedag\u00f3gus feladata kiemelni, motiv\u00e1lni, arra sarkallni, hogy \u0150 egy k\u00f6z\u00f6ss\u00e9g tagja, \u00e9s nem k\u00edv\u00fcl\u00e1ll\u00f3. Mint gyakorlott pedag\u00f3gus \u00e9s anya, arra t\u00f6rekszem, hogy megl\u00e1ssuk a helyzetek m\u00f6g\u00f6tt a val\u00f3s faktort, amikor egy gyermek viselked\u00e9se diszharm\u00f3nikus. M\u00e1ra az oktat\u00e1si rendszerben a lelki fejl\u0151d\u00e9s h\u00e1tt\u00e9rbeszorult, pedig ha \u00e9rzelmileg kiegyens\u00falyozott az ember, akkor a teljes\u00edtm\u00e9nye is n\u00f6vekszik.<\/p>\n<p>Mivel a pedag\u00f3giai feladat a fent eml\u00edtett t\u00f6rt\u00e9netben nem val\u00f3sult meg, \u00edgy mi j\u00e1runk ut\u00e1na, \u00e9s el\u0151sz\u00f6r is vess\u00fcnk egy pillant\u00e1st az otthoni k\u00f6rnyezetre, illetve azokra a helyzetekre, amikor j\u00f3l \u00e9rezte \u00f6nmag\u00e1t, saj\u00e1t maga lehetett.<br \/>Szavaib\u00f3l \u00edt\u00e9lve, akkor \u00e9rzi j\u00f3l mag\u00e1t, amikor figyelmet kap, amikor egyenrang\u00fanak kezelik, \u00e9ppen ez\u00e9rt otthon biztons\u00e1gosan mozgott, \u00e9s olyan k\u00f6rnyezetbe, t\u00e1rsas\u00e1gba, ahol nem \u00e9rezte a hierarchi\u00e1t, ahol nem a verseng\u00e9s, hanem az elfogad\u00e1s \u00e9s a szeretet honol.<\/p>\n<p>Mivel a k\u00f6rnyezetet nem tudjuk ilyen esetben megv\u00e1ltoztatni, \u00e9s nem is c\u00e9lunk, ann\u00e1l ink\u00e1bb az, hogy az adott \u00e9lethelyzeteket is uralni tudja az egy\u00e9n, vegy\u00fck szem\u00fcgyre Sch\u00fcssler s\u00f3 \u00e9s a biok\u00e9mia szempontj\u00e1b\u00f3l.<\/p>\n<p>Melyik az az \u00e1sv\u00e1nyi s\u00f3, ami legink\u00e1bb jellemz\u0151 arra, hogy k\u00e9t vil\u00e1g k\u00f6z\u00f6tt mozog az egy\u00e9n \u00e9s nem tal\u00e1lja a hidat, amin a k\u00e9t vil\u00e1got megk\u00f6zel\u00edthetn\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Nos, biok\u00e9miai szempontb\u00f3l a Calcium Sulfuricum az, ami csatorna nyitogat\u00f3, h\u00eddk\u00e9nt szolg\u00e1l, gyakran ezekn\u00e9l az emberekn\u00e9l el\u0151fordulnak gennyes v\u00e1lad\u00e9kok, amik nehezen \u00fcr\u00fclnek&#8230; fiatalokn\u00e1l gennyes pattan\u00e1s form\u00e1j\u00e1ban p\u00e9ld\u00e1ul\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Gennyes folyamatok m\u00f6g\u00f6tt feltorl\u00f3dott \u00e9rzelmek \u00e1llnak, esetleg valamilyen sokk is okozhatja&#8230; Eml\u00e9keiben m\u00e1ig is benne \u00e9lt egy gyermekkori trauma, amikor az oviban egy fi\u00fa az egyik mozg\u00f3 kis fog\u00e1t ki\u00fct\u00f6tte agresszi\u00f3b\u00f3l\u2026<br \/>hacsak ezt a p\u00e9ld\u00e1t vessz\u00fck, m\u00e1r akkor is \u00e9ppen el\u00e9g, hiszen az a k\u00e9p maradt meg, hogy az iskolarendszer\u0171 k\u00f6rnyezetben agresszi\u00f3, f\u00e9lelem van\u2026 jobb menek\u00fclni el\u0151le\u2026<br \/>A fogak \u00e9p\u00edt\u0151eleme szint\u00e9n a kalcium, amely a v\u00e1z szerkezetet alkotja. Ha valaminek a v\u00e1z\u00e1t alkotja, akkor az a biztons\u00e1gi alap\u2026 vajon egy ovi, iskola mennyire biztons\u00e1gos ennek a gyermeknek?<br \/>A gondolatvil\u00e1g\u00e1ban nem az, de ha seg\u00edtj\u00fck vissza\u00e9p\u00edteni neki az \u00e1sv\u00e1nyi anyagokkal a biztons\u00e1g\u00e1t, hogy biztos v\u00e1zszerkezetben \u00e9rezze mag\u00e1t, ak\u00e1rhol is van, akkor a gyermek kiny\u00edlik a vil\u00e1g fel\u00e9, \u00e9s biztosabban l\u00e9p el\u0151re\u2026 igen \u00e9s ezt tett\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>Ma m\u00e1r t\u00e1rsai, bar\u00e1tai is vannak, \u00e9s k\u00f6nnyen veszi az iskolai \u00e9letetet, s\u0151t el\u0151fordul, hogy szembesz\u00e1ll, hogy megv\u00e9dje \u00e9rdekeit, \u00e1r nem szorong annyira.<\/p>\n<p>A gyerek nagyhang\u00fa, nehezen kezelhet\u0151, felforgatja az oszt\u00e1lyt\u00e1rsait, az iskola rendj\u00e9t, otthon csendes. A fent eml\u00edtett esetnek pont az ellenkez\u0151j\u00e9r\u0151l van sz\u00f3, l\u00e1tsz\u00f3lag\u2026 Ez a gyermek nem az iskolai, ovis k\u00f6rnyezetben meg\u00e9lt traum\u00e1t\u00f3l kezelhetetlen, hanem legink\u00e1bb az otthoni, csal\u00e1di konfliktusok okozz\u00e1k azt, hogy az iskol\u00e1ban bontogatja korl\u00e1tait, pr\u00f3b\u00e1l kiszabadulni a b\u00f6rt\u00f6n\u00e9b\u0151l.<br \/>Ezen gyermekek is a biztons\u00e1got keresi, \u00e9s a szeretetet, csakhogy m\u00e1sk\u00e9pp&#8230; az idegrendszere labilis, \u00e9rzelmileg t\u00falf\u0171t\u00f6tt, \u00edgy gyakran hangad\u00f3 a cs\u00edntalans\u00e1gban. A k\u00f6rnyezet\u00e9ben azt l\u00e1tta, tanulta meg, hogy az nyer, aki a leger\u0151sebb, valahol ki kell t\u00f6rni. Ha otthon nem lehet, akkor kipr\u00f3b\u00e1lja feszegetni a hat\u00e1rait az iskol\u00e1ban. \u00c1ltal\u00e1ban ezen gyerekek sok elektromos k\u00fcty\u00fc \u00e1ldozatai, ami az idegrendszer \u201cgyilkosa\u201d, mert nagy mennyis\u00e9g\u0171 k\u00e1liumot, magn\u00e9ziumot em\u00e9szt fel ilyenkor a szervezet, ha van honnan. 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